Hi, I’m Robbie Leigh, and I’m a recovering perfectionist and people-pleaser.

I spent years trying my best to meet the needs of those around me and look like I had everything together.

I was terrified that if people saw my messy house, my overflowing inbox, or how overwhelmed I felt, they would think less of me. I walked around in deep shame marveling about how everyone else seemed to have it together but I kept falling short. I often asked myself, “What’s wrong with me?”

I tried so hard to keep up with expectations and often said, “Yes” to things so I wouldn’t let people down. I hid my struggle and pain from most of the world and just kept trying.

It came at a cost. If I didn’t feel up to projecting “Perfect Robbie”, I would cancel plans or push back meetings. I kept people at an arm’s length so they wouldn’t see the mess. I didn’t ask for help when I was inundated with to do’s, and I just kept drowning. I felt ashamed for all the ways I wasn’t measuring up. I was exhausted, overwhelmed, and deeply lonely. I became anxious, depressed, and physically ill. I knew I had to change.

Since then, I’ve been on a healing journey involving several health practitioners, coaches, and teachers. I’ve deepened my self-compassion and grown my self-love. I’ve learned to trust my inner voice and say “Yes” to the things that light me up. I let people in. I’m not at all perfect and I no longer pretend to be.

I care deeply about others, try my best, fall short, and get scared. I admit when I’m struggling and reach out for help. I try again. I check in with myself before making decisions, notice when I need a break, and prioritize self-care. I rest. I say “No.” I tell myself “Good job!” even when it isn’t perfect. I’m building a community and a coaching business I absolutely love. I’m loving, capable, and wildly imperfect.

Come join me on this journey from Perfectionism to Peace.